-4 C
Columbus
Saturday, December 21, 2024
More

    Oscar Winning Music Composer AR Rahman, Wife Saira Banu Separate after 29 Years of Marriage

    Read Later
    - Advertisement -

    Oscar-winning composer AR Rahman and his wife, Saira Banu, are separating after 29 years of marriage. Lately, Oscar-winning music composer and his wife has confirmed their split through a joint statement issued by their lawyer Vandana Shah.

    As per the official separation statement, “On behalf and instruction of Mrs. Saira and her husband renowned musician Allahrakka Rahman (A.R. Rahman), Vandana Shah and Associates issue the following statement regarding the couple’s decision to part ways: “After many years of marriage, Mrs. Saira and her husband Mr. A R. Rahman have made the difficult decision to separate from each other. This decision comes after significant emotional strain in their relationship. Despite their deep love for each other, the couple has found that the tensions and difficulties have created an insurmountable gap between them, one that neither party feels able to bridge at this time. Mrs. Saira requests privacy and understanding from the public during this challenging time, as they navigate this difficult chapter in their life.”

    AR Rahman and Saira Banu had got married in 1995. They are parents to two daughters Khatija, Raheema, and a son Ameen. Their son Ameen also posted about it on Instagram and asked followers and fans to ‘respect the family’s privacy’.

    - Advertisement -

    AR Rahman got emotional after announcing separation from wife Saira Banu, ‘In this shattering, we seek meaning’. Music composer AR Rahman penned an emotional note after he and his wife, Saira Banu, announced their separation after nearly 30 years of marriage. Taking to X (formerly Twitter), the musician shared that “they had hoped to reach the grand thirty”. Calling it a “fragile chapter”, he also said that “in this shattering, we seek meaning”.

    On the other hand, AR Rahman’s Bassist Mohini Dey has also announced separation from her husband. Mohini, a celebrated bassist in AR Rahman’s troupe, has announced her separation from husband Mark Hartsuch. In a joint statement shared with fans, the couple described their decision to part ways as mutual and amicable.

    Interestingly, this announcement came just hours after AR Rahman and his wife, Saira Banu, revealed their own divorce. The timing of these back-to-back announcements has sparked widespread speculation on social media. Fans have taken to online platforms to discuss a potential connection between Rahman’s divorce and Mohini’s split, although no evidence supports such claims.

    At just 29, Mohini is already a renowned name in the music industry, known for her performances with Gaan Bangla’s Wind of Change. She has also collaborated with AR Rahman on more than 40 international shows, solidifying her reputation as a versatile and accomplished artist.

    - Advertisement -

    I don’t know’: AR Rahman’s ex-wife Saira Banu once revealed she had no idea where ace musician was during their honeymoon. Rahman’s honeymoon story has set the internet on fire.

    However, the news of AR Rahman’s separation stunned the entertainment industry.

    Legendary music composer AR Rahman shocked the entertainment industry after his divorce from Saira.  Many may not know that AR Rahman asked his mother to search for a simple wife for him, who wouldn’t trouble him and support him and his passion for music.

    It was Rahman’s mother who came across Saira Banu and they got married in 1995. But did you know, Saira was not the first choice for Rahman? It was Saira’s sister Meher that Rahman’s mother had eyes on. However, later Saira was chosen for the music composer. Even before meeting AR Rahman, Saira was a fan of his work and since then their bonding began.

    - Advertisement -

    While the couple shared a mutual understanding and respect, Rahman made sure that he and Saira were on the same page ahead of their marriage. Yet, their divorce was a shocker in the entertainment industry.

    When AR Rahman had No idea about his Honeymoon

    Indian actor Rashin Rahman shared a special bond with Indian music maestro, AR Rahman. The actor recalled a moment when he and Rahman joked about many things. Rashin Rahman sarcastically revealed that since he is more of an outgoing person, AR Rahman is inclined more towards spirituality. But what came next was a shocker, the actor jokingly spoke about Rahman’s honeymoon, instead of spending time with his wife Saira Banu, AR Rahman was busy playing veena late at night.

    In an interview, he revealed, “I remember, when he got married, he took my sister-in-law for the honeymoon to a hill station. I called them that night, it was just 12 or 1… She answered she was sleeping already. I asked, ‘Where is Rahman’. She said, ‘I don’t know’. He was in another room, practicing his veena… He was composing something; he’s that kind of person (sic).”

    Theirs was an arranged marriage which was fixed by his mother. Years ago, during a chat with Simi Garewal, the music maestro had shared that he did not have the time to go and look for a bride because he was busy with work. “I was 29 and I told my mother. I said, ‘find me a bride’,” he said.

    “Initially, she used to get frustrated. I mean not going out. I mean generally you can’t go out for shopping and…” he said.

    AR Rahman’s daughter Khatija Rahman got married in 2022. The music composer had shared a family photo from the wedding ceremony which also had a portrait of his late mother displayed near the seating area of the bride and groom.

    In a resurfaced throwback interview with Nasreen Munni Kabir for her book A.R. Rahman: The Spirit of Music, AR Rahman spoke fondly of his wife and their journey together. Recalling their first meeting, Rahman said, “In 1994, when I was about twenty-seven, I decided that it was time to get married. For some reason, I started to feel old. My mother and my sister Fathima saw Saira for the first time at the shrine of the Sufi saint Moti Baba in Chennai. It was all very easy.”

    Meanwhile, on the professional front, Rahman continues to focus on his upcoming projects, including Chhaava, Thug Life, Lahore 1947, and Genie, which promise to showcase his musical brilliance once again.

    AR Rahman pens note after separation announcement: “We had hoped to reach the grand thirty, but all things, it seems, carry an unseen end. Even the throne of God might tremble at the weight of broken hearts. Yet, in this shattering, we seek meaning, though the pieces may not find their place again. To our friends, thank you for your kindness and for respecting our privacy as we walk through this fragile chapter.” He also added the hashtag ARR Sairaa Breakup.

    Their daughter Khatija Rahman wrote on her Instagram Stories, “I would greatly appreciate it if this matter could be treated with the utmost privacy and respect. Thank you for your consideration.” AR Rahman and Saira’s son Ameen also took to his Instagram Stories and requested “privacy” during this time. “We kindly request everyone to respect our privacy during this time. Thank you for your understanding,” he wrote.

    As per other reports, Saira was born in Kutch, Gujarat, in December 1973. She is almost seven years younger than AR Rahman. She is said to come from a culturally rich upper-middle-class family. She is known for her social and charitable activities. She often contributes to charities that work towards education, healthcare, and community development.

    Rahman and Saira met in an arranged marriage setup. Rahman once revealed that his mother noticed Saira at a shrine in Chennai and approached her family for her hand. “My mother didn’t know Saira or her family, but since they lived just five houses away from the shrine, they walked over and spoke to her. Everything happened very naturally,” Rahman said in an interview.

    In an old interview, Rahman revealed he met her on his 28th birthday and found her ‘beautiful.’ “She was beautiful and gentle. We met for the first time on 6 January 1995, on my 28th birthday. It was a brief meeting. After that, we mostly chatted on the phone. Saira speaks Kutchi and English and I asked her in English if she wanted to marry me. Saira was very quiet in those days. Now she’s anything but quiet,” he said.

    Rahman once admitted that his marriage was off to a rocky start. In Nasreen Munni Kabir’s book, A.R. Rahman said, “We are South Indians and Saira comes from a Gujarati background and was brought up in the traditions and culture of North India. You know it’s always difficult for any family to adjust to anyone new coming into the fold. Like all mothers, my mother was possessive about me and as we all lived together as a joint family, a period of adjustment was necessary. In 1995, my eldest daughter Khatija was born and everything was fine after that.”

    The Grey Divorce

    Dealing with a divorce after decades of marriage can be an emotionally challenging and transformative experience. For individuals who have spent a significant portion of their lives with a partner, like the iconic musician and his partner, moving on requires understanding, resilience, and support.

    After decades of marriage, separating can bring a whirlwind of emotions—grief, anger, confusion, and sometimes relief, said Arouba Kabir, emotional and mental health professional and founder of Enso Wellness. Suppressing these feelings may hinder healing. Allow yourself to grieve the loss of the relationship and remember that these emotions are valid, she said. “Don’t just grieve the loss of your relationship but also the life you built together.”

    For many, marriage forms a core part of their identity. Post-divorce, it’s essential to rediscover who you are as an individual outside the context of the relationship, Kabir said. “Any breakup or divorce is heartbreaking, but going through it after decades of being together can be a life-altering experience, so you have to make space for new changes in your life.”

    Website | + posts

    Educationist/Administrator/Editor/Author/Speaker
    Commencing teaching in his early twenties, Prof Aggarwal has diverse experience of great tenure in the top institutions not only as an educationist, administrator, editor, author but also promoting youth and its achievements through the nicest possible content framing. A revolutionary to the core, he is also keen to address the society around him for its betterment and growth on positive notes while imbibing the true team spirit the work force along with.

    - Advertisement -

    You May Like

    More Stories

    Related stories

    Giorgia Meloni Tops Politico’s Class of 2025 as Europe’s Most Influential Leader

    Politico’s “Class of 2025” list of Europe’s 28 most...

    Bollywood’s Lucky Charms: A Belief of Celebs to Good Fortune

    You must be familiar with words like lucky charms or...

    “Sachin Did Everything for me,” Vinod Kambli Gives Update on Friendship with Tendulkar

    Following the sparked controversies between two cricketing legends, Vinod...

    Subscribe

    - Never miss a story with notifications

    - Gain full access to our premium content

    - Browse free from up to 5 devices at once

    Comments